I've decided on the blog. I type out all the good bits anyways, why not just share them with you?
If you're just joining us, in February of 2014 I decided I just had to study abroad. 4 months, dozens of emails, 20 minutes of audition tape, and an 82-page petition later, both the University of Tennessee and the Birmingham Conservatoire at Birmingham City University ok'd my semester abroad.
I'm living in a 5-bedroom terraced house in Five Ways, about a mile west down Broad St from the conservatoire (Email me if you want the address to send me some american goodies). Out of my four housemates, only one is English, and she's not even from Brum. The other three are from Spain, Croatia, and Romania. I actually have five housemates if you count the cat, Lily. I'm pretty sure Lily is English, but I never asked. She likes to stand around watching people cook or unload groceries, but this usually results in a stern talking to from Ana in an angry sounding Romanian.
The conservatoire had my email wrong, so I've been confused about what I'm supposed to be doing so far. Today is mandatory international orientation at the conservatoire, but I didn't know what time it would begin. Things seem to start later here, though. People go to work later, classes begin later, so I ventured out of the house at 9:30. I made it down Broad St to the library and Symphony Hall, but I couldn't find the conservatoire. In Victoria Square (which I thought I was in Paradise Circus at the time) I saw a young guy with a guitar on his back and a cumbersome piece of luggage on each arm. He was stopping frequently trying to wrangle it all and I couldn't leave him there. I've been struggling to make friends, anyways. I really felt for the kid trying to carry all if it plus an instrument.
"Do you need some help? I can carry one."
"What? Are you sure? They're really heavy."
"Yeah I've got a free hand."
"Are you real? Can I touch you? My god, I thought I'd fainted."
I picked up one of the bags and we headed to the New Street train station. He was going back to Wales for "Uni" and had been in Birmingham visiting his mom. He asked me where I was headed before I stopped to help him.
"I'm not sure."
"Come to Wales, it's lovely"
(don't worry dad, I politely declined. I don't travel abroad with strangers.)
He asked me about Texas, what the people are like, "I've never met someone from Texas before, are they all as friendly as you?" "Do they all have mustaches?" And he wondered about California as well. "have you ever been to California? what's it like? Tell me about it."
I told him I had not had much luck with friendly people in Birmingham. He agreed, "yeah they're all a bunch of dicks."
"Strangers haven't been very nice to me. I just couldn't leave you there."
"My god, you're like a big ray of sunshine on a cloudy day!"
Probably the highest compliment I've ever been paid.
After I left Zack ("Zed, a, c, k") in the ticket line of New Street station, I dared to find my way to the conservatory. Within the next 30 or do minutes, I had probably passed it a dozen times. It's actually nestled in the city. It doesn't stick out, and it isn't grand, and you can walk around it and under it and through it about 9 different ways and not even realize it's there.
Orientation was great. Fresher's week beginning on Monday will be ten times better, but orientation gave me a good feel for the school. Everyone there was friendly and nice to me, even though I did most of the approaching. I think I met about 7 girls from Malaysia. (This is not important, I'm just pointing out the large number of Malaysian students.)
They told us that there were 76 new International students this year, and 6 exchange students. That's me, an exchange student. I met two others so far, an organist from Norway and a french horn player from West Texas A&M.
Every time I mentioned Louise Lansdown (my professor while I'm here) to someone, they always raved about her. Key reviews include "Amazing" and "Little Fireball." That's a good sign.
At the conclusion of orientation, current international students spoke about their experiences, and what they wish they'd been told. Daniel, An american guy whose been here 4 or 5 years explained that making friends with the British doesn't get any easier. Approach and introduce yourself, You'll catch them off guard, but they'll get over it.
I did make friends today. We even went out and got dinner together (Including a really nice girl from the Czech Republic who was maybe even impressed by my phrasebook Czech and knowledge of the "hacek"). Tomorrow I'll do some touristy museum stuff and figure out a local phone.
xx
Roselyn